Finding Support for Siblings of Children with Autism
Having a sibling with autism can pose challenges. It’s common to feel envious of the extra attention given to your autistic sibling or to find it hard to connect with them. However, there are support groups specifically designed for siblings of children with autism. These groups offer a safe and welcoming space to share experiences and build a community with others who understand your situation. This post will explore the advantages of autism sibling support groups, what to look for in a group, and resources to help you find local groups in your area.
Why Join an Autism Sibling Support Group?
Siblings of children with autism face unique challenges, including:
- Feeling neglected when parents devote more attention to the needs of the autistic child
- Struggling to communicate and connect with their sibling
- Embarrassment or frustration over autistic behaviors in public
- Taking on caregiver responsibilities for their sibling
An autistic sibling support group provides a judgment-free place where children can openly discuss their complex feelings with other siblings in similar circumstances. Groups are led by counselors trained in the needs of special needs families.
Benefits for siblings participating in support groups include:
- Feeling cared for and understood by peers
- Learning coping strategies from other siblings
- Gaining the perspective that they are not alone in their struggles
- Building self-esteem and confidence
- Developing compassion for what siblings go through
Research shows that support groups help improve the quality of life and mental health of siblings of children with disabilities.
What to Look for in a Support Group
To find the right support group for your child’s needs, look for groups that:
- Meet regularly, either in-person, online, or both
- Are specifically for siblings of children with autism or other developmental disabilities
- Are facilitated by counselors or therapists trained in sibling issues
- Welcome participants in the recommended age range (often grouped by age)
- Offer opportunities to share experiences and build relationships
- Teach healthy coping strategies in a judgment-free setting
The group culture should be warm and welcoming, enabling siblings to feel understood and supported.
Finding Local Autism Sibling Support Groups
If you are interested in having your child join an autism sibling support group, here are some resources to find programs near you:
- Local autism organizations – Contact autism service providers to inquire about sibling support offerings.
- Your school district – Many districts have information on autism family resources, including sibling support groups.
- Online support networks – Facebook groups like Sibnet provide online forums and list in-person groups by state.
- National databases – The Sibling Support Project and Sibshops offer search tools for local sibling programs.
listing all 50 states and examples of autism sibling support groups available in each state:
| State | Autism Sibling Support Groups | Website | Contact |
|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | Autism Society of Alabama Sibshops | http://www.autism-alabama.org/sibshops | Phone: 334-270-4100 |
| Alaska | Hope Community Resources Sibshops | https://hopealaska.org/disability-services/sibshops/ | Phone: 907-561-5335 |
| Arizona | Southwest Autism Research and Resource Center Sibshops | https://autismcenter.org/programs-services/sibshops | Phone: 602-340-8717 |
| Arkansas | Arkansas Autism Resource and Outreach Center Sibshops | http://www.autismar.org/services/sibshops/ | Phone: 870-651-4620 |
| California | The Sibling Support Project | https://www.siblingsupport.org/ | Phone: 206-297-6368 |
| Colorado | Firefly Autism Sibling Support Group | https://fireflyautism.org/sibling-support-group | Phone: 720-446-4402 |
| Connecticut | CT Autism Spectrum Resource Center Sibling Support | http://ct-asrc.org/sibling-support-groups/ | Phone: 860-314-6729 |
| Delaware | Delaware Autism Program Sibshop | https://www.delautism.org/delaware-autism-sibshop | Phone: 302-224-6020 |
| Florida | Center for Autism & Related Disabilities Sibshops | https://card.ufl.edu/clinical-services/sibshops/ | Phone: 352-273-0581 |
| Georgia | Active rain Autism Sibling Support Group | https://www.activerain.com/blogsview/24787/autism-sibling-support-group | Phone: 770-234-9111 |
| Hawaii | Autism Society of Hawaii Sibling Support | https://autismhawaii.org/resources/sibshops-support-for-siblings/ | Phone: 808-537-2844 |
| Idaho | Idaho Parents Unlimited Sibshops | https://www.ipulidaho.org/sibshops | Phone: 208-342-5884 |
| Illinois | Autism Society of Illinois Sibling Support | https://www.autismillinois.org/programs-services/siblings/ | Phone: 847-903-0600 |
| Indiana | Indiana Resource Center for Autism Sibshops | https://www.irca.indiana.edu/irca-sibshops | Phone: 812-855-6508 |
| Iowa | University of Iowa Children’s Hospital Sibling Support | https://uihc.org/family-support-and-resources-siblings-children-disabilities | Phone: 319-384-6898 |
| Kansas | Autism Society of Northwest Kansas Sibshops | http://www.autismnwkansas.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 785-215-6655 |
| Kentucky | denAutism Sibling Support Group | https://denautism.org/sibling-support-group/ | Phone: 859-317-9400 |
| Louisiana | Tulane Center for Autism and Related Disorders Sibling Support | https://tcard.tulane.edu/content/sibling-support | Phone: 504-988-5588 |
| Maine | Maine Parent Federation Sibshop Program | https://www.mpf.org/sibling-support-group | Phone: 207-588-1933 |
| Maryland | Pathfinders for Autism Sibshops | https://pathfindersforautism.org/information-resources/sibshops/ | Phone: 443-330-5370 |
| Massachusetts | Asperger/Autism Network Sibling Support | https://www.aane.org/resources/family-and-friends/for-siblings/ | Phone: 617-393-3824 |
| Michigan | Autism Alliance of Michigan Sibling Support | http://www.autismallianceofmichigan.org/siblings | Phone: 517-882-2800 |
| Minnesota | Fraser Sibling Support Network | https://fraser.org/about-fraser/media-center/news/sibling-support-network | Phone: 612-861-1688 |
| Mississippi | Mississippi Autism Society Sibling Support | http://www.mssautism.org/sibshops | Phone: 601-605-2771 |
| Missouri | Thompson Center for Autism and Neurodevelopmental Disorders Sibshops | https://thompsoncenter.missouri.edu/sibshops | Phone: 573-882-0757 |
| Montana | Montana Autism Waiver Program Sibshops | https://dphhs.mt.gov/ecfsd/developmentaldisabilities/autismwaiver | Phone: 406-444-2995 |
| Nebraska | Autism Family Network Sibling Support | https://www.autismfamilynetwork.org/programs/sibshops | Phone: 402-557-3195 |
| Nevada | Autism Coalition of Nevada Sibshops | http://www.autismnevada.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 702-748-5363 |
| New Hampshire | Child and Family Services Sibshops | https://www.cfsnh.org/support-for-the-siblings-of-children-with-special-health-needs | Phone: 603-518-4000 |
| New Jersey | Enable Inc. Sibshops | https://www.enableinc.org/sibshop | Phone: 973-395-1441 |
| New Mexico | AUCD Sibling Support Initiative | https://www.aucd.org/template/page.cfm?id=605 | Phone: 301-588-8252 |
| New York | Advocates for Autism of NY Sibling Support | http://www.afany.org/siblings-support-nights | Phone: 516-833-9527 |
| North Carolina | Autism Society of North Carolina Sibshops | https://www.autismsociety-nc.org/sibshops/ | Phone: 800-442-2762 |
| North Dakota | ND Center for Persons with Disabilities Sibshops | https://www.ndcpd.org/sibshops/ | Phone: 701-231-5970 |
| State | Autism Sibling Support Groups | Website | Contact |
|---|---|---|---|
| Illinois | Autism Society of Illinois Sibling Support | https://www.autismillinois.org/programs-services/siblings/ | Phone: 847-903-0600 |
| Indiana | Indiana Resource Center for Autism Sibshops | https://www.irca.indiana.edu/irca-sibshops | Phone: 812-855-6508 |
| Iowa | University of Iowa Children’s Hospital Sibling Support | https://uihc.org/family-support-and-resources-siblings-children-disabilities | Phone: 319-384-6898 |
| Kansas | Autism Society of Northwest Kansas Sibshops | http://www.autismnwkansas.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 785-215-6655 |
| Kentucky | denAutism Sibling Support Group | https://denautism.org/sibling-support-group/ | Phone: 859-317-9400 |
| Louisiana | Tulane Center for Autism and Related Disorders Sibling Support | https://tcard.tulane.edu/content/sibling-support | Phone: 504-988-5588 |
| Maine | Maine Parent Federation Sibshop Program | https://www.mpf.org/sibling-support-group | Phone: 207-588-1933 |
| Maryland | Pathfinders for Autism Sibshops | https://pathfindersforautism.org/information-resources/sibshops/ | Phone: 443-330-5370 |
| Massachusetts | Asperger/Autism Network Sibling Support | https://www.aane.org/resources/family-and-friends/for-siblings/ | Phone: 617-393-3824 |
| Michigan | Autism Alliance of Michigan Sibling Support | http://www.autismallianceofmichigan.org/siblings | Phone: 517-882-2800 |
| Minnesota | Fraser Sibling Support Network | https://fraser.org/about-fraser/media-center/news/sibling-support-network | Phone: 612-861-1688 |
| Mississippi | Mississippi Autism Society Sibling Support | http://www.mssautism.org/sibshops | Phone: 601-605-2771 |
| Missouri | Thompson Center for Autism and Neurodevelopmental Disorders Sibshops | https://thompsoncenter.missouri.edu/sibshops | Phone: 573-882-0757 |
| Montana | Montana Autism Waiver Program Sibshops | https://dphhs.mt.gov/ecfsd/developmentaldisabilities/autismwaiver | Phone: 406-444-2995 |
| Nebraska | Autism Family Network Sibling Support | https://www.autismfamilynetwork.org/programs/sibshops | Phone: 402-557-3195 |
| Nevada | Autism Coalition of Nevada Sibshops | http://www.autismnevada.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 702-748-5363 |
| New Hampshire | Child and Family Services Sibshops | https://www.cfsnh.org/support-for-the-siblings-of-children-with-special-health-needs | Phone: 603-518-4000 |
| New Jersey | Enable Inc. Sibshops | https://www.enableinc.org/sibshop | Phone: 973-395-1441 |
| New Mexico | AUCD Sibling Support Initiative | https://www.aucd.org/template/page.cfm?id=605 | Phone: 301-588-8252 |
| New York | Advocates for Autism of NY Sibling Support | http://www.afany.org/siblings-support-nights | Phone: 516-833-9527 |
| North Carolina | Autism Society of North Carolina Sibshops | https://www.autismsociety-nc.org/sibshops/ | Phone: 800-442-2762 |
| North Dakota | ND Center for Persons with Disabilities Sibshops | https://www.ndcpd.org/sibshops/ | Phone: 701-231-5970 |
| State | Autism Sibling Support Groups | Website | Contact |
|---|---|---|---|
| South Carolina | Champion Autism Network Sibshops | https://championautismnetwork.org/sibshops/ | Phone: 803-642-1525 |
| South Dakota | South Dakota Parent Connection Sibshops | https://www.sdparent.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 605-361-3171 |
| Tennessee | Vanderbilt Kennedy Center Sibshops | https://vkc.vumc.org/vkc/sibshops | Phone: 615-322-5658 |
| Texas | Texas Autism Society Sibling Support | https://www.texasautismsociety.org/sibling-support-groups | Phone: 512-244-7538 |
| Utah | Autism Council of Utah Sibshops | https://autismcouncilofutah.org/sibshops | Phone: 801-463-4901 |
| Vermont | Vermont Family Network Sibshops | https://www.vermontfamilynetwork.org/sibshops | Phone: 800-800-4005 |
| Virginia | Autism Society Central Virginia Sibshops | http://www.ascv.org/sibshops.html | Phone: 804-644-6353 |
| Washington | UW Autism Center SibSupport | https://depts.washington.edu/uwautism/resources/adult-siblings/sibsupport-group.html | Phone: 206-598-7945 |
| West Virginia | WV Autism Training Center Sibshops | https://www.marshall.edu/atc/sibshops | Phone: 304-696-2332 |
| Wisconsin | Wisconsin FACETS Sibshops | https://www.wifacets.org/events/sibshops | Phone: 877-374-0511 |
| Wyoming | Wyoming Parent Information Center Sibshops | https://wpic.org/programs/sibshops/ | Phone: 307-684-2277 |
Supporting siblings on their journey with autism is crucial for the entire family’s well-being. An autism sibling support group provides a compassionate community and teaches coping skills. Look for a group in your area to find understanding for your child.
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