Navigating Life with an Autistic Sibling: A Comprehensive Guide

Embracing Autism: Our Journey Continues - Building a Supportive Network for Saar and Myself

Growing up with a sibling who has autism can significantly shape your life experiences. It can be a journey filled with various emotions, ranging from deep love and protectiveness to occasional resentment and jealousy. Your relationship with your sibling is unique, and your experiences are equally important.

Here are some expanded tips and advice for siblings of children with autism:

  1. Educate Yourself About Autism – Understanding your sibling’s challenges and strengths is crucial. It will help you develop patience and set reasonable expectations. Learn how you can best interact with and support them. Read age-appropriate books like “My Brother Charlie” by Holly Robinson Peete or “Rules” by Cynthia Lord. Attend workshops or seminars about autism to deepen your understanding.
  2. Express Your Feelings – It’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions. Find a safe space to express these feelings, whether confiding in trusted friends or family members or writing in a personal journal. Consider joining a support group like SibTeen through the Autism Science Foundation, where you can share your experiences and learn from others in similar situations.
  3. Enjoy Shared Activities – Find common interests and activities that you both enjoy. This could be playing sports, making art, exploring nature, or watching a favorite movie together. Focus on having fun and building a relationship outside of the context of therapy. List things you both like to do and plan regular activities around these interests.
  4. Advocate for Your Needs – It’s important to communicate your needs to your parents. Let them know when you need one-on-one time or feel overlooked. Your needs are important too. Set up designated special times each week where you can have their undivided attention.
  5. Connect with Peers – Find comfort and camaraderie in connecting with other siblings who understand your unique experiences. They can provide a sense of understanding and shared experiences. Search for local or online sibling support groups, or consider starting one if none exist in your area.
  6. Celebrate Your Sibling – Recognize your sibling’s uniqueness and abilities. Celebrate their accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem. Share their achievements on social media or create homemade awards to show them how proud you are.
  7. Set Healthy Boundaries – It’s okay to need space from your caretaking duties. Communicate this tactfully to your family. Remember, it’s okay to recharge and take time for yourself. Use clear and respectful language, such as “I need a break right now,” if you feel overwhelmed.
  8. Practice Self-Care – Make time for your hobbies, friends, and personal goals. Manage stress through exercise, journaling, listening to music, or practicing mindfulness. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
  9. Patience is Key – Be patient with yourself, your sibling, and your family. This journey will have its ups and downs, and giving each other grace during difficult times is important.

Having a sibling with autism can present unique challenges but also brings unique joys. You can build a meaningful lifelong bond with understanding, support, and care. Remember to care for yourself as you navigate this journey with your special sibling. Your relationship with them is a gift that will continue to enrich your life in ways you may not yet realize.


My name is Adi, and I am the proud parent of Saar, a lively 17-year-old who happens to have autism. I have created a blog,, with the aim to share our family's journey and offer guidance to those who may be going through similar experiences.Saar, much like any other teenager, has a passion for football, cycling, and music. He is also a budding pianist and enjoys painting. However, his world is somewhat distinct. Loud sounds can be overwhelming, sudden changes can be unsettling, and understanding emotions can be challenging. Nevertheless, Saar is constantly learning and growing, and his unwavering resilience is truly remarkable.

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  1. 2023/09/08

    […] to find it hard to connect with them. However, there are support groups specifically designed for siblings of children with autism. These groups offer a safe and welcoming space to share experiences and […]

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