Understanding early signs of autism and how to support communication
It used to break my heart.
At the playground, I’d call out my son’s name—again and again—and get nothing. Other kids turned to their parents with a quick smile or a “What?” My son kept playing like I wasn’t even there.
At first, I thought he was ignoring me. Or worse, I thought I was doing something wrong.
But here’s what I wish I’d known: Not responding to their name can be an early sign of autism—and it doesn’t mean they don’t love you or care. It means their brain processes sensory input differently. What feels automatic to us isn’t always automatic for them.
What Helped Us
- Using visual cues: standing in front of him or waving
- Gentle touch on the shoulder
- Saying his name before offering something exciting (like a favorite toy)
- Practicing during play, without pressure
Over time, he’s started to respond more—but even when he doesn’t, I now understand why. That shift alone changed everything.
You’re Not Alone
If you’re noticing this too, you’re not a bad parent—and your child isn’t broken. They’re communicating in their own way.
Have you experienced something similar? Share it in the comments—we’re building this understanding together.